The true spirit of Christmas 

The true spirit of Christmas 

by Fr Joe DSouza

As Christmas approaches, our hearts swell with joy, and our homes come alive with colourful lights, music, and laughter. It’s a time for family, friends, and festivities, a season of rejuvenation and bonding. But amidst the celebrations, let’s not forget the true meaning of Christmas–the birth of our Saviour, Jesus Christ (Luke 2:1-20). 

Growing up in Belagavi, India, Christmas held a special place in my heart, largely due to the vibrant traditions and interfaith celebrations that filled our home. In our neighbourhood, festivities brought people together, transcending religious boundaries. It was a custom for women from neighbouring families—Christian, Hindu, and Muslim—to gather at each other’s homes, sharing recipes and laughter as they prepared traditional sweets like Kuswar. 

“May we celebrate with purpose, gratitude, and may we have a renewed commitment to spreading love, peace, and joy…” 

As kids, we’d eagerly watch the sweets being made, sampling a few (or more!) of each and creating a mess, but also listening with wonder to the women’s stories. This beautiful blend of cultures and faiths taught me the importance of unity, kindness, and generosity. On Christmas Eve, I’d sing in the choir during Midnight Mass, and the next morning, I’d serve at the altar and be the thurifer. When I’d arrive home, having the opportunity to share Kuswar with loved ones, neighbours, and the elderly brought even more joy.  

These simple acts of kindness and community taught me the value of love, generosity, and compassion; shaping my understanding of the true spirit of Christmas—a celebration of love, unity, and the gift of salvation through Jesus Christ. As I reflect on those childhood experiences, I realise that Christmas is more than just a cultural celebration; it’s a time to commemorate our salvation, made possible by God’s gift of His Son, Jesus Christ (John 3:16).  

Today, the world needs Jesus more than ever. He is the Prince of Peace (Isaiah 9:6), the Joy to the world (Psalm 96:11-13), and the King of glory (Psalm 24:7-10). When He dwells in our hearts and minds, even the most unlikely of friends –the lion and the lamb–can live in harmony (Isaiah 11:6-9). 

“Let’s extend a hand of kindness, generosity, and compassion to those in need.”

In a world torn apart by war, hatred, and division, Christmas reminds us of the power of love and unity. As we celebrate the birth of Jesus, let’s not forget the countless individuals and families displaced, suffering, or struggling for survival. Let’s extend a hand of kindness, generosity, and compassion to those in need. May our celebrations be a beacon of hope, shining the light of Christ to a world desperate for peace and harmony. 

This Christmas, let’s come together in Christ, acknowledging our shared humanity and our need for a Saviour. As we exchange gifts, let’s remember the greatest gift of all – the gift of salvation through Jesus Christ (Ephesians 2:8-9). May this Christmas season bring us closer to our Lord and to each other. May we celebrate with purpose, gratitude, and may we have a renewed commitment to spreading love, peace, and joy to all those around us, shining the light of Christ to a world in need. 

As we consider the true meaning of Christmas, let’s reflect on the words of Jesus: “Love each other as I have loved you” (John 15:12).